Day N) Personal Work
Imagine you are at zero and the perimeter is 10. You need to start out slowly with one new item in each quadrant. Don’t worry if you miss one quadrant, you can pick that up later. Its a lifelong process to build momentum to reach the outer area perimeter. Here is the area of maximum influence. Give each quadrant a value from 1-10. Giving 10 the most you will need in life. If you start slowly with new activities and habits it will be more smooth and enjoyable to your new self image. Keep an excel graph to track your new ideas, activities and hours put in. Volunteering is part of your rich image and development of people skills or “social”. Each change of habits in each quadrant is like an upgrade to your progress. Follow those numbers clockwise as if the wheel is turning, you will have more and more momentum as time passes. The less even your wheel quadrants, the more energy you need. This is due to the opposing quadrants will be supported by each other. For example, financial will give you more spirit and joy. Self esteem and personal skills will give you more social satisfaction. Start slowly and evenly. The more bumps your wheel will experience, the less momentum you will have. I recommend cut paste and print for your wall. Make it a subconscious map.
Success is simple, deal with your area of influence and not an area of concern or fear. Imagine if you put yourself in the middle of the wheel or lower levels of each. The more momentum is created by your energy to reach a larger area of influence. You are in a continuous trajectory or outwards spiral. Once you understand what you have been missing you will be able to support prospects better in their self respect and your experience as a TD, they will benefit.
Plan the work and then work the plan. You must enforce those new habits, by taking baby steps, new neuron pathways. The first step is the hardest and really not that big a deal when you see the big picture.
So if you are good with a supporting partner you can share a portion of your wins to move your icebreaking and skill attainment forward. You can also get support with your colleges with our webinar. Talk is cheap so get your homework done and head down till you digest this course. Keep your plans close to your chest till you earn some cash customers and are enjoying taking control of your life.
If nothing else in this course, memorize these rungs on this wheel for life balance, self image and integrity. You are in the center of the spokes and as you expand the amount of smiles your create, the wheel gets bigger. BALANCE YOUR PROTEINS AND GREENS and never stop learning!
This wheel is about balance. Without a smooth ride you will never be happy. There will always be some chaos. Just realize that the emotion created is limited but seems bigger than it is. Nothing is the same are you are now. Keep the balance, respect the spokes and your qualities
See the opposite slice of career? See how it reflects and is connected to relationship? This is no coincidence. Many people are seduced by power and money while losing their integrity. Not all, so keep this in mind as men may compete and even bully you. Your gentlemanly behavior and a great suit is your armor. With these you dont need to be on the offensive. You should not be biased against another just because one has power and money. A designer of suits to bespoke fit is a talent and a rare asset for any man to find.
Brain Tech Change.
1) Career balances with relationship skills, integrity in relationship
2) Money balances with personal growth, balance with personal integrity and self realization.
3) Health balances with habits from cleanliness, exercise, fresh food and cooking skills, self reliance.
4) Friends or family balances with fun & recreation
To be where you want to be in your life you need to have an inspiration. A view, vision board to build your wheel and your momentum! To be successful you must be realistic, modest and studied.
This is easier when you have and show integrity, rather than projecting your common material wants. How you build flyweel momentum through your performance and habits, is key in getting your outcome and income. I recommend to visualize and plan your outcome in stages while you reinvent yourself. The right engine that will get you there safely at a gradual or controllable speed. The speed and direction that allows you to look back a month, a year or a decade on occasion of low feelings is talented 4th dimensional practice.
The straight road takes a powerful motor and is dangerous to people on that road and the driver. It includes surprise, blame and fatalities. Driving meandering involves a high revolution engine that creates a gyroscopic balancing function in the engine that keeps the car to the road on curves. This is similar to keeping a high end customer interested with your high energy to serve their perfect fit through your cut. The direct road is more like selling a brand name that utilizes unique cloth and style and often lacks the subtleties of tailoring. This is also acceptable for some clients. Without great rapport they can go anywhere else.
Learning is more like the meandering road that allows you to view or appreciate life on the way. This works best for me as I make contacts spend time to know who they are and their needs. I like to use both depending on the client. When I listen well to the first 2 sentences clients will reveal their values and appreciation level. If I know I can handle their tailoring needs, I strut my confidence and drive straight for an exciting ride for their money.
Your career as a designer is having the skills to organize, and as well weathering and enjoying chaos. There is no better place to start with your room. It will be constant reminder and metaphor of your abilities to change your environment, from humble beginnings like myself to a luxury condo in one of the worlds most expensive cities. dominate your humble area of influence. Its mid control. The Japanese built an auto industry from nothing simply by the ideal of building foundations mechanisms and processes.
Building your engine is creating your daily habits that launch you into achieving smiledge! There are 3 factors to the power of the engine;
1) Morning Home Habits/ Make your Bed/ physical Education/ Hygiene/ Your wardrobe/ The mirror
2) Scheduled time Home Habits/ Mental Education-career- making daily contact up to 5 calls per person over 5 months (communication skills)
3) Planning Weekly Routine/- events- new contacts/ Emailing video clips to prospects business and personal interest ( non clothing) / Calling contacts to see if they have watched any video clips you may have sent them. Of course keeping small files are key.
Rats or Humans we can change our DNA.
The first step of the day is the most important as your surroundings are part of yourself respect and arriving home and tired early is successful. Of course, getting up early is part of your success. Keep your superficial stimulants minimum this late as sleep is profound hormonal value for a clear mind. Your visual or aesthetic world from your room to your dressing is a study of its own. With color texture and sculpting or using negative space around featured objects, and detail or nuances. also, that are small and more colorful such as hankies, ties or sox. An artist uses the same concept to try to create intimacy with those that listen or see deeper. Designers create attention for those that are curious. Preparation pays. This is something we will do online as well.
-Need Inspiration and Willpower?
Watch this video and create your vision or your dreamscape. This is an excellent subconscious practice that allows you to edit regularly your board. This self monitoring process you should NOT TAKE CASUALLY. CASUAL WITHOUT AN AGENDA leads to CASUALTY. You must make this a part of your daily ritual. No less than looking in the mirror! Strong psychological dynamics are in play. Do new habits in unquestioned sequence for 21 days and you’ll have it. Your brain builds new neurons every 3 months if you repeat new habits you’ll own them! New epigenetics research shows that when you methylate (eat greens) that you have better capabilities for learning (brainfood) and to upgrade those neuron pathways. You only need 2 boards- one that brings up your passion for performance (talent) and one that shows intelligence. Material stuff can be there for show and tell. Then eventually you will simply work backwards with your work regime to fill in your work timetable and how that will look, in realistic terms, balancing your mind, the material world and your energy level- spirit. You are recreating yourself, you will need a little pride and a lot of patience and humor. The more you edit the more you will be changing and maturing towards a successful balance of quality traits.
Cut out pictures and pin them on a wall or a scrap book that you can leave open or something you like to hang on your wall. Maybe find a poster and pin on that. Then work backwards and balance the things that motivate you with a few pictures of people whose scenes you want in your life. The more you look at it the more you get in touch with yourself and even end up editing it as you grow insightful about who you are in terms of values and who you were that you may leave behind. Utilize the energy in old emotions, is useful for some. But others are more positive and move on with the compassion they need for themselves to balance their passion for their life wheel and self actualization as a self employed creative.
Old habits will raise their ugly head. The conscious mind is always in motion so if you are not having positive thoughts it defaults to negative or useless thoughts. Its a sign of need for serenity, reflection, I get this from exercise relaxation. On your board, imagine that you can balance “enjoyment” or “use” of things with “love” of people. Don’t love things more than enjoying people. It will make you poor never satisfied. Many rich homes are unmaintained and show a poverty. They bought to big and cant maintain. That is why your self maintenance with dressing is key to what the some poor rich may be needing, is happy maintenance. Your best image is your content with your income via satisfied clients and an honorable reputations or suspects have heard of suitstyler or even your name. This is a very positive thing .
With your available energy and resources you can create your regimen for training along with a good suit, some class, honesty and character you will be in business in no time. Developing your people skills takes a little gratefulness and bravado at the same time. Luckily building a wardrobe takes time as well so the two will coincide. The secrets to building both are part of my courses. If you have any self love of any type, you will be able to man or woman-up, with chin-up to achieve your goals of “responsible” financial freedom. Check in weekly with webinars to let us know your weekly successes or failure.
Take “Kaizen” steps to Manhood by Mentors.
Many of your happy older clients are potential supporters and mentors. They may want to see you do well. I was lucky that way many clients wanted to support me and my tailors. I often was as generous as I could be. But the real value was not cash, not the rapport and the referral, but was the sincere wisdom that were offered as mentorship. This is beyond patronage and is a gift that you can remind them of when you call appreciatively to thank them for their patronage of the craft.
Success often is a byproduct of responsibility that real manhood embraces. Your prosperity will be due to your new habits that carry your character with class and create momentum to move your direction forward. As well TD course supports your ability to turn intention into action into practice efficient networking. The more you create rapport with the more contact to call.
Although keep in mind quality of contact and rapport is more important so you are remembered when you call.